Building Up A Good Character

in Project HOPE2 months ago

There is one thing you may not be able to hide from others from long no matter how hard you try and that is your character. Your character goes a long way to define you, but much more than that, it defines both your present and your future. Well, just to let you know, your character is what forms the backbone for your future because it is borne out of your attitude which also sprang up from your dominant actions.

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There are many things in life that fade away with the passage of time, like the outward beauty, makeup and all, but your character will stick around for a while and will leave a trail behind you. This is why you should consolidate your efforts in building a good character. Believe me, you do not do good to others alone by treating them nicely but you also do yourself good because it will give expression to your good character.

Most times, the excuse that people with ill character give is "I am being real". Well, it is very important to distinguish "being real" and "being rude". You do not hide under the umbrella of the former to perpetuate the later. Rudeness is rudeness and it is bad to anyone's character. Trust me, even the person that is extremely very good made a choice to do it, not because they don't have tendencies to manifest their dark side but because they have mastered their good sides over their dark side.

If they can achieve that, then why can't you too? The side of yourself that you show is the side that you have consolidated on. If you focus more on your good side, it will become your dominant side and will affect your character positively. The same thing also hold true when you make your dark side your dominant side, it will affect your character negatively.

Just to let you know, there is a measure of goodness and a measure of the flip side in everyone, however, the one you make your dominant side is entirely your choice. The truth is, you have everything within you to be good but you still have a choice to make without a recourse to other people and to your situation.

When you put on a nice makeup, or if you are beautiful/handsome, it will attract people to you but what happens then? Your character is what makes them to either stay or leave. If people leave your life with the same speed at which they enter, then check it, they may not be the problem, you may be.

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The world is already more nasty than many people can possibly bear and no one will choose to be with someone with a nasty character, they will rather move on. As much as you build other aspects of yourself, try to also build your character because at the end, this will be what you will be remembered for.

Thanks for reading

Peace on y'all

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Hello @samminator
You are right, everything we learn and the way we act and define our character, in short, that is what presents us to society in our personal relationships, determines our future to a great extent.
Considering that in good part our future is linked to the good relationships we make and these to our character.

Exactly buddy, the future is a product of what our actions of the past and the present are, and these are products of our character.

Thanks for dropping by buddy

Hello friend @samminator, you are very right, the world needs people who can socialize naturally and who have a better vision of things and of life, although I also believe that many times it is better to be sincere than to tell a pious lie, most people can see that as rude but in my opinion it is only sincerity.

Certainly our behavior can be shaped to achieve the construction of our character in an optimal way. Greetings and thanks for sharing. Greetings

our character is a strong influence in our lives and in our business;I personally believe that cultivating a positive attitude helps create more favorable conditions to develop better things.

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