HUGE Ego Versus Strong Ego....WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE?....

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Today I'm going to write about the difference between.

HUGE EGO VERSUS STRONG EGO

Of course, all of us already have or have one of the two egos described, but there is a big difference between these egos.

The HUGE ego is the worst that we can find in any person, they are the ones that are the center of the world, the world revolves around them, they are egocentric, they think they do not have to learn anything with anyone, they disdain people, they humiliate people and they always want to be the center of the universe.

I can say that I find thousands of them in the artistic world because there is a stupid competition for more importance and they do not understand that it is not with the huge ego that they will be able to be respected artistically.

Already the strong ego, this we have to have within us and cultivate because it is directly connected with the self-esteem of each one of us.

The strong ego is the one we do not let ourselves be transported out of us, the most intelligent people who possess it.

This is ego that makes you go to the front of the mirror and say to yourself: I can, I am important to me, I like myself, I am capable and all those important feelings we have.

It means competing with yourself and not with others and that is the healthiest thing you can do for yourself.

I'm still going to write some posts about internal competitions but today I would like you to reflect on that.

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Dear @chbartist sir!
History is a witness that the existence of anyone who has ego has merged into the soil. The way in which a negative and positive thought stream is good and evil, in the same way ego is also of two types which are reflected ( Negative) and the one who competes with himself (positive). In other words, one can say that one is related to your intellect, and by the second emotions.The other aspect of the mind can be kept in the category of ego. Protecting a strong ego makes sense. If you are emotionally connected to someone, then do not place the ego in there, otherwise everything will end.Ego builds a strong wall around us, so that we keep imprisoned. Use the ego as a shield, that is, use it to compete with yourself.
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Exactly @certain competition with ourselves!

@chbartist competition with ourselves and with every thing .If i have iphone 6 and afet some days i want to change iphone 6 and want to switch iphone X. So everything is competition .

This is another steeming pile of !shitpost!

I don't think as many many people who commented on this post, this is a shit...What you do is disgusting and rude not just to the author but the readers.. you just can say: I disagree with the opinions on this post or I don't like... It's not necessary to be so rude and disagreeable to express and leave clear your opinion, and that awful image!! Do you have to be so explicit?

I love reading these interesring comments

Regards, @chbartist, When man is born and attains rational consciousness, he unequivocally initiates new paths towards his individual formation as a community; the showy variety of communicational, printed, visual, and auditory elements begin the structuring of the character of the individual. The feeling comes from our feelings counting on the rational; The ability and the good or bad disposition to allow the EGOS to dominate over you, in search of your satisfaction, reaching the point that others reconsider TOXIC.

If we observe the "EGO-CENTRISMO", feeling superior and that you do not need anyone, you will not have to spend a lot of time in your life to be left alone, that is why this Etiquette is a frustrating behavior towards others and self-frustrating internally. There is a tendency to believe that if you feel the only one doing it well in the long run you will be execrated from your circle, an EGOCENTRICO does not support another EGO, WHY SHALL IT BE? ...... ..The feeling of the ego is one of the bases of having a prison mind, therefore, the prisoner pays his actions, the bigger your ego, the harder your self-pity will be at the end of your concrete reality.

NOW SAFETY IN YOURSELF, IT IS SELF-ESTIMATE (ZERO EGO), in the good sense of guaranteeing what we do in participation towards others, inner security that gives you confidence in yourself. The indescribable charm that comes from sharing and not believing the center of the universe "EGO-CENTRO" is embodied in the energy in learning wisely to live and perceive your worth without belittling others. THE INVITATION IS THAT WE BOTH THE "EGO" AND DEMOS CHANCE TO THE AUTO STIMULUS, WITH A RECIPROCAL VALUE TOWARDS OTHERS.

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I liked this article. It's a post worthy of what it earned you, like the rest of your content.

This is a great subject of conversation. Ego is something that needs to be managed. My personal opinion is that one should let one's ego for the real world, and interaction with others.

If your expression of it is positive and helps you and others grow and live in a better world, on with it.

If it's bad, it's also good. Because the backlashes of your warped ways will teach you a lot.

When one is alone, not with others physically or virtually, for me the the way to go is as ego-less as possible, even if I'm provoked by outside forces (people walking by my windows, the mind)...

All that said, if your ego is a dark, warped game-playing, even when you are doing tranquilizing things, like taking a shower, studying, taking your nourishment, or enjoying entertainment, then you're in for a fall.

I think any type of ego is ok upto the point of self esteem and self confidence and determination. Any overdose is toxic and intolerable.
When one completely dissolves ego, thats when they are enlightened and attain moksha- the salvation

In philosophy they said that there are two ego. False ego means all the definition that you given above that "I". I is everything-powerfull, beautiful, another ego is alter ego they said after knowing the reality that ego comes. That "I" is different from the previous one,this is mostly talk by all the spiritual teacher who walked on this world. In simple term one ego"I"-how I serve the world whole humanity's and other one"I" ego what I can get or exploit the world and humanity.

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Great! Thank you!

I imagine that any ego must be controlled, set limits! There is no one more unpleasant than a person with a lot of ego, but it can also be unpleasant a person who always looks inferior to others. That's why I think the ego should be dosed. It is as if we inflate a balloon too much or too little. If it is too little, it will not give all that it should give; but if we inflate it too much, it could explode. Balance is the word. Good night, @chbartist

Exactly Nancy. Have a good week!

Realmente me identifico con el Ego Fuerte, en el transcurso de mi vida, sobre todo en la época de estudiante desde la primaria hasta en la universidad. Nunca me intereso ocupar el primer puesto como mejor estudiante con resultados académicos....porque los mejores estudiantes la mayoría eran como el Ego Enorme....solo le interesaban ellos, muy poco compartían sus conocimientos...se cerraban en su mundo... Pues yo nunca compartí esa forma de vivir como compañero de estudio. . Me gustaba compartir, enseñar, ayudar incluso me centraba sobre todo en las materias que mas me gustaban y eran las materias mas fuertes para muchos...como matemáticas, física, química y dibuje técnico...entre otros... para mi el mejor puesto lo sentía cuando mis compañeros sacaban sus mejores notas...por el resultado que yo les aportaba...esa era mi felicidad y mejor paga....en la época de la universidad pues mi trabajo me ayudaba económicamente para poder brindarles a mis compañeros refrigerios e incluso algunos profesores... no solo me destacaba por mis conocimientos compartidos, si no porque era bromista y me gustaba alegrar el ambiente en las clases..hace un tiempo escuchaba en una emisora a un pastor que decía que para llegar a Dios no hacia falta títulos...pues la mayoría se aferran a esos títulos al precio que sea...Creo que el mundo necesita muchos seres con el Ego Fuerte... "el mundo necesita de gente despierta ....para hacer despertar al mundo...así como una vela encendida puede encender millones de velas"

Gracias! Saludos!

I read this thrice. Lol! Thanks for sharing, it was really educating. And I also resteemed. Have a great day

Hmmm..
Huge and strong ego
But when will strong ego cross the line?
Is strong ego really strong ego or insecurities covered?
Yeah I understand the concept strong ego but is there a tin line between strong ego and huge ego ?

Yes, the lines are very close and you must always be careful!

This is a very necessary topic, because at this point there are still people who confuse low self-esteem with humility. There are still people who say, for example, that to be humble you can not dress as you want, or that you can not have a lot of money.

And the saddest thing is that many people who say these things are not even close to being humble with their attitude.

I fully understand what you mean and agree, but these people have to keep away from us.

I know a lot of my friends who has a HUGE ego! Lol!

Resteem for then! LOL Regards

LOL!! nice one!

Strong ego always gives you the strenght and confidence but huge ego always bring negativity towards you.

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flexible person can achieve respect, honour and be able to be friend to most of other people. hope you are fine my friend, best regards.

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Thank you @paddya for your kind words!

Any form of ego is good if its for ourself and taken in positive way. Once we start showing our ego to others then problems arise. Because people don't like person with ego and they start going away from us and maintain distance. But in other way if use this ego with ourself and do the competition too then we will work hard and surely will move forward in life. Have a great weekend friend @chbartist

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Thank you! You too...

I guess like many things it is about achieving the right balance... Egos tend to have a bad reputation given the thought of them getting in the way of listening when needed. However, I agree with your concepts of self confident which in turn leads to self-awareness that helps one improve behaviors and thought processes.

I think ego is not good.Respect all the persons.Who small and big.He poor or he rich.He is your neighbour or your family members.Any person.We always respect the others.Not show ego.One thing is give repect or take respect.Meet the new peoples very wonderfully.Everyone like without ego person.Your second point is to be good.You efford to achieve your life goals.Hardworking is more important and main oart in our life..Very great topic.Thanks for sharing.Your posts always unique.I always like your posts.

Thank you for your words!

I enjoyed your comments on the huge ego.
I know someone like that and as much as I feel he is a good person, I get irritated by the fact that his conversations revolve around himself all the time and he does not listen to others in conversation as he only wants to put his view across!

I understand! Thx

Sir is a very good post. Ego is like a sick inside a person who never lets it grow, we should stay away from it.

I have met people with the Huge Ego, and they are really very selfish and unpleasant people. As for the strong ego, it is necessary to cultivate in us the confidence, security, control and firmness. This will keep us in balance between ourselves and others.

Agree blessed!

A very informative and helpful article on motivating everyone to have an ego but a strong ego rather than a huge one. It means we have to build our strong ego and develop our confidence and motivation level which can help us in achieving our dreams(it can vary according to everyone person).
The basic idea is amazing and very much helpful and I will definitely share this with my friends who should know the difference.
Thank you for this very special article.I hope to see more from you!

Thank you for read and your words!

You are welcome sir! I felt blessed by reading such an article..

What do i understand is that egocentricity falls into pride and the other fit into self esteem and worth. As you understand and accept what/who you are.
You can then serve or destroy others with what/who you are.

In my opinion sir we need to buried our ego if we want success in our life. Thank you sir for upvoting every comment. I'm happy being part of your community.

I don't give upvote in all the comments, I give upvote in whom I really realize that is connected with the post and with the proposal that we have here that is the programming of a positive mindset and that you also vote for each other. Regards

Hello friend,, you said in your previous posts that you are against of self voting but you upvoted your own comment, is it a mistake from you ?
I think you accidentally upvoted your above comment.

My personal take on the ego is that it’s the part of us that feels the need to be special. It’s that part of us that seeks approval and by very definition it is a part of us that feels lacking in some way. This is why I know that the ego is not my friend. hahaha

Friend everybody is important!

It has been brought to my attention. I have an Ego problem. I thought it was just my pride. But having some harsh eye opening situations lately makes me really look into it. I didn’t really understand what the ego was. This article helped out alot.

This is something worth pondering. Many thanks, @chbartist! I know a lot of people who really interchange huge from strong. And you really can't win over them...

Thank you for your kind words!

Even to consider yourself in a mirror is already egoism, but the opponent visible in the reflection is the strongest of whom you can think

Both types of ego have been analyzed very closely, which is very much appreciable, we are firmly with you and will move forward.

@chbartist although your life is hard you post good contents hands off to you
But what do you think ego is good or not for our personality? Must reply

As I said in the post the strong ego is good because it is in connection with our self-esteem and this is very important because everyone is important in their functions and we should never let a person humiliate us and people who do not have the least of their strengthened ego suffer with these bad people

important distinction between the two... A huge ego is retrogressive, does not allow one to see the bigger picture as one with it is constantly self centered and focused. A strong ego drives you to achieve, to escape mediocrity and leap forward in life's journey...much appriciated

I think everybody have to focus on the second point THE STRONG EGO. This can help in growing our confidence.
Thank you! @chbartist! for such a kind of nice blog. You are very broad minded people & you have a positive mindset. That's why you are one my favorite person in steemit. Thank you again for supporting us.

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Thank you. Friend!

Thank you friend!

That was a very interesting explanation thank you.
I have honestly not looked at this that way, although
I did consider the idea that having a big ego does not straight away
make someone a bad person. Now I can define those as strong egos instead of huge. Because most people I know with Huge ego, are very disrespectful to others to make themselves feel better.

A HUGE STRONG BIG HUG to you too.

Strong = anti-fragile. HUGE = maniac.

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Well nice to read the article which figure out both positive and negative aspects of ego. Actually ego means the sense of self - esteem or self importance. So this particular sense can do both harm and good for us depending on handling this .As rightly said in this article about huge ego and strong ego. But how to identify which one is having upper hand within our self? Kindly comment if you can give a solution to this.Well according to me the moment we will realize that there is any kind of unpleasant feelings experienced due to our own ego , we should conclude it as huge ego which is destructive. Rather we should focus on developing our ego to self confidence gained through self respect which will further develop our self image bright. That is what strong ego. A very good topic to discuss.Am I right?What do you think?

I think you understood the message very well but as you said, it is a very broad subject. Success!

For what i see ....huge or big is not the problem
everything have both side ...good or and bad ..without ego we won't have the urge to grow but too much of it will destroy us ...i mean we just need to know the balance being humble but still keep some ego in ourselve

Exactly what the message I wanted to convey. You just summed up the post in other words. Success!

To me you have hit that on point

Huge ego is what makes a person to act as the king of the world and gradually drags us to what none of us want to be.... It's physiological affect that's because if the upbringings or the society surrounding by the person

On the ither hand, is you look to the strong ego that's something everyone shpuld have in them, this is what that makes people stand for themselves stand for the righteous things stand for their own sake stand for the acts that might affect his mind r body r mentally affects them.. Without the strong ego aperson won't have self confidence

Thank you for your comment!

Great article. Look forward to your next one.

Bad ego or Huge ego is biggest obstacle for personal growth...bad ego is a burden that most of the people Carry and love to carry it.

We can only get loved by others and grow ourselves , fulfil our life with joy and happiness once we quit bad ego and have good ego for self respect.

Thanks for your good explanation between good and bad ego.

wow earning of 245$ FOR THIS post that hell of an achievement, I personally huge ego makes you a scoundrel and strong ego gives you the power to achieve success. Strong ego means will power to achieve more whereas huge ego is just a confused personal refusing to come in terms with reality.

Wow beautiful image has so many hidden meanings

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@chbartist If you use your ego as a way to learn to be better, it can become a powerful secret weapon. If you have a weak ego, it means you get upset whenever your identity is challenged. If you have a strong ego, you adapt, adjust and keep moving. Ego is neither good nor bad, it simply is a part of you sir this is my own opinion about this sentence but different persons have different perception now a days .

cool article, for me having a strong ego is like being an emperor, you know the power of your strength, you have gone through all battles within so you do not need to prove anything to anyone or steal the power of others, you fear no one or nothing, you are a sun that shines out on the whole and you inspire others by a refined ego polished like a diamond. peace.

Sadly i am with HUGE ego, but I'm trying to get better. Good post!

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Thanks for that. It is in my heart now. God bless you.

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[strong ego] means competing with yourself and not with others and that is the healthiest thing you can do for yourself.

that's a lot to ponder on. I think the source of the huge ego is the need to dominate others, to feel superior and better than others around you. this kind of feeling breeds distrust, unhealthy rivalry and low self esteem. This kind of ego is out to use others as means to an end. It's a self-independent attitude that deprives one of the fellowship, partnership and warmth of other people

The strong ego, on the other hand, is focused on mastering oneself. to be the best version of what a person can become. this kind of ego allows others to help and also seeks to help others.

Those are my thoughts

Thanks for sharing

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History is a witness that the existence of anyone who has ego has merged into the soil. The way in which a negative and positive thought stream is good and evil, in the same way ego is also of two types which are reflected ( Negative) and the one who competes with himself (positive). In other words, one can say that one is related to your intellect, and by the second emotions.The other aspect of the mind can be kept in the category of ego. Protecting a strong ego makes sense. If you are emotionally connected to someone, then do not place the ego in there, otherwise everything will end.Ego builds a strong wall around us, so that we keep imprisoned. Use the ego as a shield, that is, use it to compete with yourself.
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Hello!
Well I have had particularly say the "luck" of running into my way of life with people of Enormous or Enormous Ego, so not necessarily in the artistic world we usually find it. These people tend to be the center of attention and when they are not, they try to denigrate whoever tries to overshadow them, their ego makes them think that they are the center of the universe, and unfortunately they will never stop thinking otherwise. Some time ago I had a friend, I used to think that everything revolved around himself, I tried for a long time to make him look and be a better person, but in the end I gave up, used to get angry and victimize when things did not go to his benefit , so in the end, it's better to get away ...

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@chbartist Hola, soy nueva en Steemit. Oye me gustó mucho este articulo, soy cristiana, y creo que la base fundamental para un ego fuerte es tener a Cristo en nuestros corazones, pues Él nos guia para hacer las cosas correctamente, sin Cristo tenemos un ego enorme que solo hace que nos enfoquemos en nosotros sin importar quienes a nuestro alrededor sale lastimado.

Re-steemd. Thanks for another great one, your posts are always strongly positive.

Wonderful post as it applies to my personal life at this point in time I will re-tweet :)