The hidden disease

in #life3 years ago (edited)

About 4.5 years ago, an aunt lives near our house, having 2 childs, her husband was no more. I go their and ask her whether she need anything else, but she replied none of you will ever came to my home again ever. I feel very disappoint and come back.

After it I notice some men handsome came inside her home, they have conversation for long time. Then they came very often, and when they came she gets her childs out of the house by making any excuse, plus she uses good perfumes, which even sometime their pleasant smell fragrant our surroundings, this all make her case strong, We all noticed her for six months.

In this scenario we expect her as a bad character, and we decided to talk to her to leave our society, but due to delay within 4 months she died…We all feels that’s it is good for of our community. After it we came to know that she have a specific disease, due to which she keeps away other peoples and her Childs away from her, this disease also makes poor smell, due to this she uses good perfumes and the men are her doctors and nutritionist..

These all facts dramatically change the whole picture and her image..

Some time I feel very sad and think, that the Hidden disease is not just for her, I also have hidden disease, due to which I think negative about her as well as spread hastens for her
without knowing the facts.. Alas!


it is Great lesson

So touching. I had an aunt whom I lost to cancer. We should not judge people from afar without knowing what they are going through.

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#1 Play the Game

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Sometimes we keep our intimate things very close to the inside without knowing that at some point it will come to public light and we can hurt our loved ones. Hiding a disease does not bring benefits to anyone, YOU CAN NOT HIDE THE SUN WITH A FINGER!

Thank you very much for sharing :)

Sometimes, we, people can judge and punish the others without being in their shoes beforehand. The article is another reminder to think before we judge!

That is just very sad🙊...

We have to be very careful in the assumptions we make about people.

What a terribly sad story of a community that judged instead of reaching out. So often we assume we know all the facts when we actually know very little, would things turned out differently if the community reached out to her...probably not, but maybe she may have felt the love of her community rather than feeling completely alone.