RE: Psychology Addict # 39 | Need For Approval & External Validation
Our need for approval and validation stems from our innate necessity to feel included.
In terms of social media, I agree.
Recently, I went with a friend of mine at late hours to meet her husband who was landing at the airport that night. She wore a casual slipon.
While I saw nothing wrong with that, she told me that what she wore was not too good, and I asked her why, she said because ladies are going to comment negatively about the slip on.
This means her consciousness already developed to having or accepting approval from folks.
I think the best way to life a free and non pleasing life is to stop seeking external approval consciously or subconsciously.
An excellent post you have served us with. Thanks.