in #steemjetlast year

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Hello Everyone

I want to advise each and everyone of us, most especially the men (guys), when a woman comes to destroy you in the name of relationship. Guys we have to be careful because about 70% to 80% of the ladies only comes to destroy you, you might be thinking they are loving you.
Please I know some ladies will not be happy with this post but I put it to you that any lady reading this post and she's not happy or doesn't understand the points am about to make is a man's destiny destroyer

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Few tips of the women that comes to destroy a man and the women that comes to support a man in a relationship

1.) Any woman that comes to destroy you will not call you on phone always. Anytime she calls you, the call will not last more than 5 minutes and anytime she calls you she wants to make a request
While the woman that truly loves you will always call you to check up on you. Even when you always call her too, she will always try to make it up to you so that you'll not feel it is just your responsibility to always do the calling.

2.) Any woman that comes to destroy you will never ask you of your future plans for the growth of the relationship. Even when you try as the man to discuss relationship matters with her, she will not be interested to listen and sometimes she'll sleep off while you are still talking.
While the woman that truly loves you will always be the one asking you for your plans, on the relationship and where it is leading you both to.

3.) Any woman that comes to destroy you will never ask you about your business. If you are growing in your business or not. She will never contribute to your business or bring in New ideas on how you'll grow your business
But the woman that truly loves you will always ask you about your business and also contribute to the growth of your business because she sees a future with you. When you grow, she grows

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4.) When a woman gives you(man) only sex and never advises you, she doesn't supports financially, you doesn't buy you gifts, she doesn't take you out and pay the bills etc. My brother RUN! That woman is a destiny destroyer and she has nothing to offer. She only wants you (man) to buy gifts for her, support her financially, pay for her bills etc . Brother, such woman is not the person to take in as a wife
The woman that truly loves you and cares about you will always do the needful for you

I LOVE YOU is not enough to build a relationship. Relationship is a two parties something, one person can not build a relationship. For a relationship to work out perfectly the two parties needs to contribute in the ways they can. You don't leave the responsibility for just the man or the woman, the both of you has to contribute because you two are in the relationship together.

Guy's take note of the few tips I gave above; there are so many ways to find out when a woman comes to destroy you and when a woman comes to support you.

The word of God said in the Holy book in
1 Corinthians 11:11-12 ESV
Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man nor man of woman; for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God.

1 Corinthians 11:8-9 ESV
For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man.

Genesis 2:18 ESV
Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”

Ladies and gentlemen, I will still write about the bad men that only comes to destroy the women but before then have a wonderful day ahead